A New Framework for the AI Age

THE FOREIGN MIND

Ender's Reframe for AI Leadership

By Steve Harlow

"The skills that make you effective with AI are the skills that make you effective with people."

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ENDER'S REFRAME FOR

THE FOREIGN MIND

AI LEADERSHIP

STEVE HARLOW

The AI Paradox

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Why do some professionals thrive with AI while others plateau?

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It's not technical skill. The most sophisticated prompt engineers often produce mediocre results.

The difference is leadership.

AI is a Foreign Mind: genuinely different from human cognition, but reachable with the right approach.

The Five Pillars of AI Leadership

The same capabilities that enable all great leadership enable effective AI collaboration.

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Understanding

Do I accurately model how AI thinks?

Model how AI actually thinks, not how you assume it thinks.

II

Communication

Have I translated my intent clearly?

Translate intent across cognitive difference.

III

Delegation

Is my trust calibrated appropriately?

Calibrate trust based on evidence, not hope.

IV

Development

Am I building capability over time?

Build capability through progressive challenge.

V

Accountability

Do I own the outcomes completely?

Own outcomes completely, regardless of AI's role.

"In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I also love him."
— Ender Wiggin, Ender's Game

Why Ender's Game?

Ender Wiggin defeated an alien species by understanding minds radically different from his own. He succeeded not through technical mastery of weapons, but by developing genuine empathy for an intelligence completely unlike humanity.

That same capability—applied ethically—is what AI collaboration demands.

The Enderverse provides a powerful lens for understanding how to work with genuinely foreign intelligence. The book draws on Card's "Hierarchy of Foreignness" to reframe AI as something neither tool nor threat—but a different kind of mind requiring different leadership approaches.

What You'll Learn

Why AI effectiveness mirrors leadership effectiveness

How to model AI as a "Foreign Mind" you can actually collaborate with

The five pillars that separate AI leaders from AI users

Practical frameworks for trust calibration, intent translation, and honest assessment

How to avoid the 13 anti-patterns that derail AI collaboration

Strategies for individuals, teams, and organizational transformation

Who This Book Is For

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Individual Practitioners

Seeking to excel with AI tools and develop genuine mastery

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Team Leaders

Building and guiding AI-augmented teams

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Executives

Driving organizational AI transformation

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Lifelong Learners

Who believe leadership principles should apply to all forms of intelligence

Inside the Book

19 Chapters
5 Appendices
90K Words
13 Anti-Patterns

Part I: The Reframe

Establishes the AI leadership hypothesis and introduces the Enderverse framework

Part II: The Five Pillars

Two chapters per pillar—practical frameworks, anti-patterns, and Ender examples

Part III: Contexts

Application across individual mastery, team leadership, and organizational change

Part IV: Integration

Identity, future-proofing, and the call to lead responsibly

About the Author

Steve Harlow

Steve Harlow is a technology executive with twenty-five years of experience leading digital transformation. He has helped leaders across industries develop AI collaboration capabilities, translating complex technical concepts into practical leadership frameworks.

With experience at Amazon/Kindle and multiple Fortune 500 companies, Steve brings both strategic vision and hands-on implementation expertise to the AI leadership challenge.

The tools will change.
The leadership fundamentals will endure.

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